"If you aren't enough without it, you'll never be enough with it."
As much as I love to win, this is so true, for two reasons:
1) Winning all the time isn't success.
2) Life is much deeper.
On number 1)
When people train, prepare, and strive for success they are, of course, striving for victory but how many successful people have won at everything they do? I am sure their are a few who seem to win at everything, but the big winners lost a lot before they won. Why would I say this? How else do you learn? How else do you get better? If you have never lost, never failed, and never struggled, you have never challenged yourself to be more and do more. You may win at everything you do, but are you really getting better? Or are you merely maintaining of bare minimum life? I say, if you want to do BIG things you need to fail. You need to LOSE a few! Should you try to lose? NO!!! Never try to lose, do your best and honestly evaluate your mistakes and weaknesses. By pushing yourself to new levels, you can trully reach greatness and and, ultimately, success. Honestly evaluating yourself and suscepting yourself to critismn is tough, but it is very worth it! Most importantly, you can't think of failure as a negative, but as progress, and finally, simply winning cannot be the reason, life is bigger than that.
On number 2)
Life is about so much more than anything you and I can win or be successful at. Think about everything in your life more important than earthly winning and success. At the top belongs God, family, friends, etc. If what you desire to win at comes before things like this you hvae a problem because if you don't win in these areas, winning anywhere else doesn't mattar one bit! Once your priorities are in the correct order you can focus on winning in business, sports, games or anything else you can think of.
Keep striving to win, Keep challenging yourself, Never be afraid to fail but always learn and grow, and most importantly, ALWAYS win in the important areas of life before focusing on the others fun and sometimes necessary parts of life.